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3 Relationships Tips from Someone With Experience

Tips on Finding Romance

At its core, romance involves doing something to express affection in a meaningful yet unexpected way. Finding romance and finding love are two separate entities, yet they are very much related to one another; therefore, how should one go in finding romance? Maybe because the spark of excitement is not yet there, so that finding the right romantic partner becomes a difficult journey.

Loving yourself first

By knowing your innermost feelings, and not being confused about it, you’ll be able to know on whether you love yourself or abandoning yourself. Once you understand your feelings, move toward those feelings rather than away from them with various forms of abandonment, like staying focused in your head, judging yourself, or making someone else responsible for your feelings. Begin to invite the loving presence of your heart and consciously open to learning about loving yourself. Then try to explore your ego-wounded self, understanding the fear and false beliefs of yourself, which is negatively pointing to self-abandoning. If you have experienced being heartbroken, lonely or helpless over someone, find out within you and understand what is causing the pain. The answers will just come in words or images or in dreams; when your heart is open to learning, the answers will come. By allowing time to heal the shame, anxiety or depression, in due time you will begin to love yourself and connect with yourself, and with that, you begin to love and connect with others.

Follow your own path

When you have made that important decision to live the life that you want to live, you will become attracted to the right people who share your own views about life.

The problems of the fantasy partner

Be grounded as to be down-to-earth in looking for the right partner, instead of fantasizing a partner who is just a product of your own imagination. When you drag yourself into that fantasy world, you start altering your behavior towards the appeasement of that hypothetical partner, in the hopes that someone will fit into that fantasy mold. The effect will allow you to wander away from reality and from the real path in your life.

Act on it

The laws of attraction is a mystery and yet very compelling, so that it just means that waiting for your destined partner in life will just turn up in the right time. Decide to act by going on dates, be on the social scene, go for group dating.

Start getting rid of your baggage

If you still have a load of baggage in your emotional self, start getting rid of it, as that baggage is history, a past chapter in your life. As soon as you have learned how to open up and have come to love yourself, there should be no evidence of heaviness as you have also begun to let go of your emotional baggage.

Supporting reference: http://lifebeinggirly.com/lifestyle/cupid-sleeping-job-guide-finding-romance/